Raising Unselfish Children in a Self-Absorbed WorldChild expert Jill Rigby reveals the dangers of the self esteem parenting philosophy and offers an alternative approach that teaches children to respect both themselves and others. After decades of experimenting with child focused parenting, parents are beginning to realize that the result is often self centered children who tend toward narcissism, selfishness, mediocrity, and dysfunction. Rigby espouses a new goal of parenting: gently bumping children